My most recent classroom Skype with an author emerged from a parent
email. A mom asked me if her daughter had ever mentioned her
grandmother, a writer who lives in India. The implication in the email
was that this may be someone I would like to invite into my classroom
through Skype, as I have with many authors over the past two years.
You never know when some of the best experiences in life will come, or how they will emerge.
Be MineI am afraid to touchthe hurts you have known, childthe sobs under the skinthe terror forged in your lines.Will poems make up for these?I'll make poems while the mind keeps.And send you wordsalve for manbite.Be well. Be mine.
I asked if the family had anything I could read by the grandmother or
photocopy to share with my classes. The granddaughter brought me in a
stack of books--when I say a stack I mean a stack. The grandmother's
writing and life experience is humbling and moving.
I Want You to Say
I want you to say
you love me
as leaves grow
on clinging vines--
say it again and again till
feeling is a net of veins
flowing with life.
Till music, hard and clean
like river water on stones,
courses through my soul-chime.
Having Indian poet Sunita Jain speak to my class was, without a doubt, one of my best experiences as a teacher:
a) The Indian students (particularly the females) had a chance to
connect with a female Indian author--just last year the significance of
these types of experiences were illuminated before me as an Indian
female student in my class expressed heartfelt joy that I had Mitali
Perkins speak to my class. I can distinctly recall her saying that she
could not believe she got to speak to real Indian author. I'm learning
first hand that mentor connections in general carry great formative
influence of young people, yet to be able to zero in on specific
cultures or the social features of your students is equally as relevant.
In Losing
In Losing I lost not you.The selfmigrated from self.The music ceased.The anguishcharred the rest.
b) A grandmother not only got to see her granddaughter in school, but
also engaged with her in my classroom--imagine all of the parties,
dinners, soccer games that this grandmother misses by living in New
Delhi while her family lives her on the east coast of America. She
misses seeing her grandchildren grow because of the great distance
between them. Yet, a technology like Skype allows families and friends
connect around the world. I have to say that watching my student and
her grandmother interact, and especially the repeated smile on the
grandmother, has been one of my great honors as a teacher. It was
fulfilling to see my student so involved with the overall experience in
addition to the privilege of seeing her interacting with her
grandmother--not to mention the fact that all of my other students got
to participate in this experience. There were so many levels to it that
I am still processing it.
Deserts are SpaceDeserts are spaceand ache is time,when to part loversan ocean walks in.
c) Good writing is international, ageless, boundless, and timeless. The
personal nature of Sunita Jain's writing really comes through in her
responses. If you view the 20 minute video below, you'll hear her talk
about the observations that came alive for her when her mother old and
dying. Her deeply personal and reflective response of how her own
sensibilities and sensitives were altered in those moments served as
such a touching and poignant lesson for my young writers.
DawnThe dawn's silver greywith sparrows, crows, bird in transit--sunshot suddenlywith crimson blended.
d) In reading her poetry together before the Skype session, and then
hearing her responses to our class, felt like I was hearing greatness.
It was great. These were not only great moments for all of the beauty
and sincerity mentioned above, but these were great words coming out of
her. I was really moved by the entire experience and I hope you gain
something out of my sharing as much as I can here online.
If you would like to see the 20 minute video of poet Sunita Jain speaking to my class, then please use the link below to access my blog. I have embedded it there:
http://walkthewalkblog.blogspot.com/2012/02/wordsalve-poet-sunita-jain-m...

Comments
Hi Brian,
Thanks for sharing this experience and your reflections on it. I've been thinking a lot lately about the difference between an educational experience and schooling, and about why one (schooling) seems so absent of the other sometimes. It was very nice to have this educational experience -- the way it was personal, built out of relationships, unable to be planned for, and deeply about writing. I'll be thinking about Sunita Jain, and her exchange with your class for days to come.